Month: October 2012

Don’t Stalk Your Lover’s X

By Dr. Jordan / October 14, 2012 /

This post is about a specific instance of love-life stalking. The urge to stalk that I’m talking about occurs when a person takes a lover who is suspected of still being interested in an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife. Before we get specific, let’s talk more generally about stalking. What is it and why do some people…

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My Lover Lies To Me

By Dr. Jordan / October 12, 2012 /

At this time of political uncertainty, most people would like to meet the ‘honest person.’ This is particularly true in our love-lives as well. True love doesn’t have a snowball’s chance in hell without honesty. Before we launch into a discussion of lying and your love-life, let’s take a little ‘Dishonesty 101’ course in preparation. Dishonesty,…

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Your Post Suggestion Box

By Dr. Jordan / October 12, 2012 /

Send us your suggestions for the love-life posts you would like to read on this blog by writing a comment in response to this post. We will do our best to write about the psychological issues involved. The great thing about our Post Suggestion Box is you get to tell us what you need to know.…

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Sex With Your Doctor

By Dr. Jordan / October 10, 2012 /

Why is sex with a treating doctor criminal abuse and toxic for the patient? Abuse occurs whenever a person who is suffering illness, or has a need for treatment, hires someone in authority to provide the service, who then takes advantage of his or her vulnerability while providing the service. It’s basically a form of…

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Older Men & Younger Women

By Dr. Jordan / October 10, 2012 /

For some older men, younger women are the coveted ‘fountain of youth.’ Especially for a man who has reason to try to avoid the ‘work’ required to maintain a growing together, fixing problems, learning how to communicate to each other relationship. Some men think that finding a younger woman will remedy all that and be…

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My Baby’s Father Has Another Family

By Dr. Jordan / October 8, 2012 /

Here’s the scenario, the father of your baby, whom you thought was single, has another family. Now this is fundamentally different from a love-life situation where he doesn’t have another family. Why? Because if he doesn’t have another family, which means he’s single, there exists the possibility that he could come back (remote or not)…

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Press Release: October 2012

By Dr. Jordan / October 7, 2012 /

Press Release:  Love-Life Workshops & Consultations on the Phone The Love-Life Learning Center is now offering educational tele-workshops and tele-consultations that anonymously focus on the personal love-life problems of participants and their sought after solutions. Tele-workshops and tele-consultations are conducted by Dr. Thomas Jordan, Love-Life Learning Center’s psychologist and founder. New York, New York; October…

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My Lover Is Rough in Bed

By Dr. Jordan / October 6, 2012 /

If your husband or lover is rough in bed, the first question you have to ask yourself is, do you like it? I’m not going to assume that your curiosity about this post title means you don’t. If you say you do then you have to admit to yourself that you’ve helped set up your…

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Older Women & Younger Men

By Dr. Jordan / October 5, 2012 /

Older women and younger men have been getting together for as long as there has been love in the world. The problem is not the age difference. The problem is the presence or absence of maturity. If an older woman is looking for a younger lover to be in control of, to ‘parent,’ this will…

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Inter-Racial Love Relationships

By Dr. Jordan / October 3, 2012 /

Can love emerge for anyone? Or does it follow prototypes established while growing up? Both. How? Love is an uncontrollable and unpredictable phenomena of human emotion. Yet we learn how to shape the experiences of love that emerge with what we’ve learn about people in our families of origin and throughout our entire lives. For…

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