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I Can’t Stop Cheating

  If you're in a love relationship and you can't stop cheating, the first step is to consider the idea ...

Love in Adulthood

Love takes three forms in adulthood: the love we give to another, the love we give to ourselves, and the ...

Seeking The Familiar

The familiar (root is the word family) can have a relentless grasp upon our emotional lives. Most of us don't ...

Meeting the Unique Individual: Theory & Practice of Benjamin Wolstein, Ph.D.

I knew the late Dr. Benjamin Wolstein as a teacher, supervisor, psychoanalyst, and as the extraordinary individual he was. This ...

Your Love Life Is In Your Mind

My love life research has taught me that our love lives are in our minds. What you've unconsciously learned about ...

A Psychotherapy for Emotional Intimacy?

Regarding the word "intimacy," let's separate the word from its commonly assumed sexual meaning and focus on its usage in ...

I Love A Married Man

This is my intro to both this post and its companion post, 'Loving A Married Woman.' If you love a ...

I Love A Married Woman

If you love a married woman and you're in a love relationship with her, read this post. You are engaged ...

Clinical Depression and the Loss of Love

Most of us would agree that the emotion of love is an essential ingredient for healthy development. When love is ...

Is It Time To Work On Your Love Life?

Is it time to work on your love life? Odd question? We work on everything else: social life, work life, ...

What Kind of Relationship Do You Form When You Fall in Love?

If you're done making the same old love life mistakes in your disappointing love life and it's time to really ...

Do I Have An Unhealthy Love Life?

Reader, before you read this article, I want you to know something about myself. I do not believe that being ...