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Psychological Love Life Defenses: 3. Habitual Conflict

Some psychological love life defenses are used to make a love relationship "tolerable." This is the case with what I ...

Psychological Love Life Defenses: 2. Keeping Your Emotional Distance in a Love Relationship

One of the easiest ways to be in a love relationship when you have unresolved emotional intimacy issues, is to ...

Psychological Love Life Defenses: 1. Denying You Have a Love Life Problem

Ever since I began studying the unhealthy love life from an interpersonal psychoanalytic perspective, I've noticed quite a few people ...

Porn and Emotional Intimacy in Men’s Love Lives

Pornography is a common form of physical sexual release in our digital age. The internet has made it so. As ...

Teaching Audiences How To Work On Their Love Lives

"There is nothing better than a room full of people interested in love!" This is my opening line whenever I'm ...

Repairing Your Disappointing Love Life

I created a highly effective psychological method of improving a disappointing love life. I call it the Love Life Consultation. ...

Meeting the Unique Individual: The Theory & Practice of Benjamin Wolstein, Ph.D.

I knew the late Dr. Benjamin Wolstein as a teacher, supervisor, psychoanalyst, and as the extraordinary individual he was. This ...

Understanding the Trauma in Sexual Trauma

With all the current difficulty figuring out who is and is not responsible for the sexual abuse of minors in ...

Your Disappointing Love Life Can Make You Sick

As a clinical psychologist and psychological disability consultant in New York City over the past 36 years, I've learned that ...

Love In The Age of Deception

In this 21st century, truth is under attack. It is getting progressively harder and harder for us human beings to ...

Your Love Life and Your Ability To Work

You've heard of the old research finding that married men live longer than single or divorced men. Of course, that ...

Living Without Love In Your Life

I have decided to rewrite this post a couple of times because of what I've learned about this topic from ...