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Dating & the Covid19 Virus

By Dr. Jordan / September 8, 2020 /

  It’s time to talk about dating in the age of the pandemic. This coronavirus has negatively affected all aspects of our love lives, especially dating. How does a single person date with viral contagion fears and the limitations it has imposed on our lives, in particular our love lives? Remember the AIDs problem and…

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What’s in Your Psychological Love Life?

By Dr. Jordan / September 3, 2020 /

What’s in your Psychological Love Life? Strange question or the potential answer to why your love life is not where you want it to be? Here’s the thing, your love life is not simply in your relationships with the people you love or want to love. It’s also in your expectations about love relationships. Put another way,…

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Are You Experiencing Repetitive Love Life Disappointments?

By Dr. Jordan / August 24, 2020 /

The most common love life problem for single, separated, and divorced people is what I call repetitive love life disappointments. This is when a person, hopeful that she or he will find a healthy love relationship, experiences repeated disappointments one after the other. Now here’s the thing about repetitive love life disappointments that people struggling with…

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Great Help for Self-published Authors: OnlineBookClub.org

By Dr. Jordan / August 21, 2020 /

In my ongoing search for websites that acknowledge and support the self-published author, one of the best is the Scott Hughes’ OnlineBookClub.org, a free site for authors and readers that has been around for about a decade with an outrageously large  number of subscribers (over 1 million). What follows is a bit of information about them taken from…

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My Abandoning Parent & My Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / August 10, 2020 /

This post is the first in a series of posts that will focus on the type of unhealthy relationship experiences we can all have in life that negatively affect our love lives. The good news is that once you become aware that an experience you’ve had in your life was unhealthy and could be affecting…

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Handling Mother-in-law Stresses

By Dr. Jordan / August 9, 2020 /

You marry someone and his or her mother hates you. Why? What did I do? Answer, you married my daughter or son. I didn’t know that was a crime or insult, loving your adult child. I thought you’d cherish the fact that I love her or him. You know, you should be happy to meet…

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Learning to Love in Turbulent Times by Dr. Carolyn M. Bowen

By Dr. Jordan / June 7, 2020 /

Guest Post & Book Review by Dr. Carolyn Bowen Quote of the Day: “Becoming conscious of what we’ve learned unconsciously (about love relationships) is a necessary step in getting control over our love lives.” Dr. Thomas Jordan We are beginning a new month amidst a global pandemic never experienced in our lifetimes. This deadly virus…

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Change Your Love Life (in the time it takes to read this book!)

By Dr. Jordan / May 31, 2020 /

Why does just reading Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life have a therapeutic effect on your love life? One reason is, the major premise of this book is that a disappointed love life exists because most people don’t consciously know what they’ve learned about love relationships. If you don’t know what you’ve learned…

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How To Live Without Love In Your Life (updated)

By Dr. Jordan / May 29, 2020 /

I have decided to rewrite this post a couple of times because of what I’ve learned about this topic from the commentary and reactions sent to me over the many months since I’ve posted it. This post is a lot different from the others I have written on this blog. One important difference is the…

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I Can’t Stop Cheating

By Dr. Jordan / May 3, 2020 /

  If you’re in a love relationship and you can’t stop cheating, the first step is to consider is the idea that you have an emotional problem. Plainly stated, you have a problem with intimacy. If you can accept that, you get to go on, and with enough self-dedication change your “psychological love life.” That’s…

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