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Learning to Love in Turbulent Times by Dr. Carolyn M. Bowen

By Dr. Jordan / June 7, 2020 /

Guest Post & Book Review by Dr. Carolyn Bowen Quote of the Day: “Becoming conscious of what we’ve learned unconsciously (about love relationships) is a necessary step in getting control over our love lives.” Dr. Thomas Jordan We are beginning a new month amidst a global pandemic never experienced in our lifetimes. This deadly virus…

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Change Your Love Life (in the time it takes to read this book!)

By Dr. Jordan / May 31, 2020 /

Why does just reading Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life have a therapeutic effect on your love life? One reason is, the major premise of this book is that a disappointed love life exists because most people don’t consciously know what they’ve learned about love relationships. If you don’t know what you’ve learned…

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How To Live Without Love In Your Life

By Dr. Jordan / May 29, 2020 /

This article is a little different than the others I have written on this blog. The objective here at the Love Life Learning Center has always been to help bring as much love into the world as possible through learning. Nevertheless, there are people in the world who are trying to cope with the absence…

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I Can’t Stop Cheating

By Dr. Jordan / May 3, 2020 /

  If you’re in a love relationship and you can’t stop cheating, the first step is to consider is the idea that you have an emotional problem. Plainly stated, you have a problem with intimacy. If you can accept that, you get to go on, and with enough self-dedication change your “psychological love life.” That’s…

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Love After The Pandemic

By Dr. Jordan / April 18, 2020 /

  Remember the phrase, “we are at our best when we are at our worst.” I believe our best is the love that is possible between people. Our worst is the sickness, death, and grief that occurs when we are living through a global pandemic. So what does this really mean? Why aren’t we at our…

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I Love A Married Woman

By Dr. Jordan / December 18, 2019 /

If you love a married woman and you’re in a love relationship with her, read this post. You are engaged in what is commonly thought of as a ‘triangle.’ Triangles are rough on the heart. Fundamentally, they are unstable, like three legs on a table. Something always goes wrong, or at least it should, because…

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Am I Being Abused in My Love Relationship?

By Dr. Jordan / December 4, 2019 /

Unfortunately, too many people are being “abused” in one way or another in love relationships. My purpose in writing this article is to give you a simple and effective understanding you can use to determine if you are one of them and what to do about it. First and foremost, let’s admit that there is…

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New Book – Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / November 17, 2019 /

                                                                               BOOK LAUNCH!!!!! Hello, Love Life Learning Center followers….My new book – Learn to Love: Guide to Healing…

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Is He/She Emotionally Available?

By Dr. Jordan / May 8, 2019 /

Is he or she emotionally available? This is the most important question you should be asking yourself when you are dating for a relationship. Dating for a relationship being a “state of mind” where you are looking for someone who is ready for a healthy love relationship. Of course there are other reasons to date.…

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Attracted to Someone at Work?

By Dr. Jordan / March 31, 2019 /

Finding someone attractive at work is common. What to do about it is tricky. Let’s assume you are emotionally available and attracted to a person at work who is attracted to you. Should you jump in or think about how to do it in a way that preserves your job, at least. Let’s strategize. The…

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