Single Living

Single By Choice

By Dr. Jordan / May 15, 2013 / 0 Comments

There seems to be a little controversy brewing at LLLC between the people who think choosing to remain single is tragic and people who believe that every individual should have the right to choose to be single. Great! I’d like to weigh in with a few thoughts and reflections on the issue of ‘choosing to…

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Why A Married Person Is Attractive

By Dr. Jordan / January 30, 2013 / 0 Comments

For many single people looking for love out there in the singles world, a wedding ring will deter any further interest. But for some people, a married person unhappy with his or her marriage and looking for something extra (a love triangle) is the preferred catch. The most common ‘superficial’ reason for seeking an affair…

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Meet Your New Lover: Rules of Engagement II

By Dr. Jordan / December 5, 2012 / 0 Comments

Like I said in Rules of Engagement I, you are a single person looking for a lover. You’re in a single situation with other single people who are socializing. There are eligible single people all around. You want to improve your ability to meet someone special. What are the rules of engagement? There are six…

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Meet Your New Lover: Rules of Engagement I

By Dr. Jordan / December 4, 2012 / 0 Comments

You are a single person looking for a lover. You’re in a single situation with other single people who are socializing. There are single people all around. You want to improve your ability to meet a lover. What are the rules of engagement? There are six (6) rules of engagement you should know about. They…

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Marriage Won’t Improve Your Relationship

By Dr. Jordan / December 3, 2012 / 2 Comments

Here’s a hard but indisputable fact, getting married won’t improve your love relationship. Unfortunately, some people think it will, and get married hoping it will. Believing that it will is similar to the let’s have a baby to improve our love relationship idea. I think this is worth saying again for those of you still resisting…

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Her Parents Don’t Like Me

By Dr. Jordan / November 7, 2012 / 0 Comments

Her parents don’t like you? Judging by the photo to your left, I can’t understand why. Seriously, this love-life problem is particularly troubling when you sincerely love someone whose parents don’t like you. What can be done about this? The first assumption we have to make is that she (your lover) is probably at an…

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What’s Up With Dating Sites?

By Dr. Jordan / October 17, 2012 / 0 Comments

I also know what it’s like to be stuck in a repetitive pattern of dating the wrong people over and over again. I got out of my repetitive cycle by changing somethings about myself. In fact, I’m pretty convinced from personal and professional experience that making positive changes in yourself is always the best thing…

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Women Who Choose To Remain Single

By Dr. Jordan / July 18, 2012 / 2 Comments

There has always been a double standard as far as being single in middle-age goes. Men always had an easier time of it. In the old days, a single woman in middle-age was known as an ‘old maid’ or a ‘spinster.’ The idea of consciously choosing to live as a single woman was not really…

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Men Who Choose To Remain Single

By Dr. Jordan / July 3, 2012 / 5 Comments

Years ago, the single man who chose to remain single as an adult was considered by many to be a a novelty but by no means an anomaly. He was a ‘playboy’ or ‘bachelor’ and envied by some who fantasized about multiple sexual encounters and self-determination. This single man was protected by a double standard…

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I Can’t Marry You But I Love You?

By Dr. Jordan / July 3, 2012 / 7 Comments

Have you ever encountered this kind of love-life problem? You are in a love relationship with someone you are falling in love with or have fallen in love with and he or she says to you when you inquire about marriage, “I can’t marry you but I love you.” Nine times out of ten the reason…

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