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Love-Life Tip: Don’t Try To Fix Your Lover

If you're in the business of trying to 'fix' your lover, you need to read this post. That goes for ...

Commitment Phobia?

If you are avoiding a love commitment chances are you're afraid of being 'locked up' in your love relationship. This ...

Love-Life Tip: Express Hurt Not Anger

In your love-life you can't work with anger or its extreme form rage. Anger is often a defense against the ...

Forms of Love

As a general definition of what we mean by the phrase 'love-life,' I'll offer you the following: A love-life is ...

Cure For The American Marriage

Apart from the usual factors that predict divorce like being too young, going against the family of origin, and breaking ...

I Love You vs I’m ‘In’ Love With You

Have you ever heard someone say "I love you but I'm not in love with you?" What's the difference? It's ...

Know This Before Starting Couples Therapy

If you're going through some kind of emotional trouble with a spouse or lover and the the possibility of couples ...

True Self in True Love

Otto Rank (1884-1939), an early psychoanalyst, made this wonderful statement about the experience of love......"Man's true self, that which differs ...

Fight, Flight, or Fall?

Most people will tell you there’s a lot of fighting and flight going on in our love-lives. Have we gotten ...

Help for Unwed Single Mothers

The February 18th New York Times front page ran a very disturbing article entitled, “Unwed Mothers Now A Majority Before ...

Love 101

Why is it that we have to be reminded to love or give by having special days set aside for ...