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Love-Life Tip: Be Yourself In Love

I'm sure you've heard this tired old expression more than once, "be yourself!" It's the advice we usually give each ...

My Child Safe With My New Lover?

This post is for women who experienced some form of trauma earlier in their lives (emotional, sexual, physical trauma, or ...

Prostituted Love Life

Sex is fundamentally a biological function. The meaning it is given by people is the result of beliefs about sex, ...

Intrusive Mother-in-laws

This classic picture depicts the true state of affairs when it comes to the 'intrusive mother-in-law.' This is a mother ...

Love-Life Tip: Tolerate Vulnerability

The biggest problem with love is our tendency to avoid the feeling of vulnerability. The way we (humans) do that ...

Too Much Work & Not Enough Love?

For those of you familiar with Freud. Remember he supposedly said, it's all about 'love & work.' Well, let's modify ...

When Should We Have Sex?

You've met someone you really like. You start dating. You enjoy each other's company. There is plenty of talk and ...

Sick Mother & Her Daughter’s Love-Life

This post is about the possible effects of a 'sick mother' on a daughter's adult love-life. My female patients often see ...

Sick Mother & Her Son’s Love-Life

This post is about the possible effects of a 'sick mother' on a son's adult love-life. My male patients often see ...

Absent Father & His Daughter’s Love-Life

This post is about the possible effects of an emotionally absent father on a daughter's adult love life. Many women see ...

Absent Father & His Son’s Love-Life

This post is about the possible effects of an 'absent father' on a son's adult love-life. I meet men who ...

Are You Afraid of Love?

Are you afraid of love? Welcome to the club. I don't think there's a human being alive who hasn't had ...