love-life problems

Marriage Won’t Improve Your Relationship

By Dr. Jordan / December 3, 2012 /

Here’s a hard but indisputable fact, getting married won’t improve your love relationship. Unfortunately, some people think it will, and get married hoping it will. Believing that it will is similar to the let’s have a baby to improve our love relationship idea. I think this is worth saying again for those of you still resisting…

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I’m Falling For A Man With A Kid

By Dr. Jordan / December 2, 2012 /

You fell in love. The only problem is the man has a kid. Is this your problem and if so why? In this post we’ll talk about the pros and cons to falling in love with a ‘single’ man who has a kid (or in some cases more than one). If you made some kind…

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My Lover Is Separated From His Wife

By Dr. Jordan / November 25, 2012 /

Just because your lover is separated from his wife does not mean he is not ‘bound’ to her in some way. Seriously, if you are in love with a ‘separated’ man, it’s important to be able to differentiate between a ‘physical separation’ and an ’emotional separation.’ You also need to know the difference between ‘leaving’…

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Does Pornography Affect My Love-Life?

By Dr. Jordan / November 13, 2012 /

So you’re using pornography on a regular basis to masturbate and you want to know whether this practice negatively affects your love-life? Let’s answer this question with a brief discussion about pornography and what it ‘teaches’ the person who uses it on a regular basis. You can then decide for yourself. Your interest in sex…

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Breaking Up After A Long Relationship

By Dr. Jordan / November 10, 2012 /

Sometimes a love relationship ends after years of being together. I could list all the possible reasons why this could happen, but I won’t. I think it would be more useful to point out that we cannot really control what happens to love over time no matter what the reasons are. Some couples take good…

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Her Parents Don’t Like Me

By Dr. Jordan / November 7, 2012 /

Her parents don’t like you? Judging by the photo to your left, I can’t understand why. Seriously, this love-life problem is particularly troubling when you sincerely love someone whose parents don’t like you. What can be done about this? The first assumption we have to make is that she (your lover) is probably at an…

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My Love Lives So Far Away

By Dr. Jordan / November 4, 2012 /

What does it take to have a ‘long-distance’ relationship that works? For those of you who are thinking of having one or are already in one now, this post will outline a few ideas that could help you make it work. Remember, love is a ‘uniting force’ in us. This is why when you are…

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You Make Love Hurt Too Much

By Dr. Jordan / November 4, 2012 /

There are people out there, and plenty of them, who are giving their hearts away to somebody who can’t return the love they need. If you’re in this category, this post is for you. Somebody’s got to pay attention to the hurt you’re feeling. This love-life problem usually happens when you fall in love with…

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Incest In Your Family Of Origin

By Dr. Jordan / November 2, 2012 /

Scientists remind us that there are compelling genetic reasons why incest leading to pregnancy must be avoided, and the legal system has determined that childhood incest is a crime. Our focus in this post will be on the emotional reasons why childhood incest must be avoided. What does incest do to the mind of the victim? What…

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My Parent’s Divorce & My Love-Life

By Dr. Jordan / October 30, 2012 /

One of the things your parent’s divorce can do to you is complicate your love-life. How? Basically in one of three ways. The most extreme (most toxic) influence is to make you mistrust marriage. The reasoning goes something like this: if marriage didn’t work for them, it’s not going to work for me. If you feel…

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