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‘Hate’ As A Disturbed Need For Love

Hate is a disturbed need for love. Don't kid yourself, hate is a very passionate emotion. You just don't hate ...

‘Premeditated Hurting’

I've been collecting a lot of great phrases and quotes from my patients lately. The latest is a reference made ...

Need Someone To Feel Good About You?

Do you need someone to love to feel good about you? On the surface of this question, your reaction might ...

A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime

I sat with a single woman the other day who used the phrase, 'A reason, a season, a lifetime' to ...

The ‘One Night Stand’

What is a 'one night stand' and is it good for your love life? The most common definition of a ...

‘Needy’ in Love?

What is this state of mind we call 'needy?' First and foremost, it's a human thing and we all know ...

Simple Test For ‘True Love’

You'll know you're in 'true love' if hurting the person you love hurts you as well.  If this happens to you, ...

What Did Your Family Teach You About Love?

Do you know what your family taught you about love? All families teach their children about love during the course ...

“I’m Not Married My Wife’s Married”

A single eligible woman said to a married man who was 'hitting on her' at a party, "Aren't you married?" The ...

Are You Being ‘Guilted’ By Someone You Love?

Are you being 'guilted' by someone you love? This occurs when the person you love leverages your experience and/or actions ...

Single By Choice

There seems to be a little controversy brewing at LLLC between the people who think choosing to remain single is ...

My Personal Love Story

My blog is maturing! Time to offer my personal love story to you. And I encourage any of you brave ...