Month: November 2012
You fell in love with a woman who has a child from another man. She may have been married or not. The point is she has a kid. She comes as a ‘package deal.’ You’ve sworn up and down that you would never get involved, really involved, with a woman who has a child. As…
Read MoreIf you’re in love with someone and you can’t get yourself to say those three little words, “I love you,” you don’t know what you’re missing. The experience of love is always better when you can say what you feel. Here’s the situation, you’re in love with someone but you can’t tell him or her,…
Read MoreJust because your lover is separated from his wife does not mean he is not ‘bound’ to her in some way. Seriously, if you are in love with a ‘separated’ man, it’s important to be able to differentiate between a ‘physical separation’ and an ’emotional separation.’ You also need to know the difference between ‘leaving’…
Read MoreRecently a man asked me, do you think it is possible for a relationship with a married woman to have a ‘happy ending?’ And if so, how can that be achieved? I want to spell out the steps that need to be taken for those of you who are struggling in love with a married woman.…
Read MoreIn the course of your love-life, you might find yourself alone. Maybe you’re between relationships or you’ve decided to be alone for awhile because of a bad love-life experience. Whatever the reason, when you’re alone it’s a good time to repair your ability to love and be loved. Believe it or not, a ‘warm-blooded’ pet…
Read MoreHere’s your situation, you had a baby and you are raising your child on your own. The father of your child does not give you child support and you’ve been reluctant to take him to court. Should you take him to family court? Let’s explore the pros and cons in your mind. You’ve probably either…
Read MoreSo you’re using pornography on a regular basis to masturbate and you want to know whether this practice negatively affects your love-life? Let’s answer this question with a brief discussion about pornography and what it ‘teaches’ the person who uses it on a regular basis. You can then decide for yourself. Your interest in sex…
Read MoreSometimes a love relationship ends after years of being together. I could list all the possible reasons why this could happen, but I won’t. I think it would be more useful to point out that we cannot really control what happens to love over time no matter what the reasons are. Some couples take good…
Read MoreHer parents don’t like you? Judging by the photo to your left, I can’t understand why. Seriously, this love-life problem is particularly troubling when you sincerely love someone whose parents don’t like you. What can be done about this? The first assumption we have to make is that she (your lover) is probably at an…
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