Are You Experiencing Repetitive Love Life Disappointments?

By Dr. Jordan / August 24, 2020 /

The most common love life problem for single, separated, and divorced people is what I call repetitive love life disappointments. This is when a person, hopeful that she or he will find a healthy love relationship, experiences repeated disappointments one after the other. Now here’s the thing about repetitive love life disappointments that people struggling with…

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Single By Choice

By Dr. Jordan / May 15, 2013 /

There seems to be a little controversy brewing at LLLC between the people who think choosing to remain single is tragic and people who believe that every individual should have the right to choose to be single. Great! I’d like to weigh in with a few thoughts and reflections on the issue of ‘choosing to…

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Her Parents Don’t Like Me

By Dr. Jordan / November 7, 2012 /

Her parents don’t like you? Judging by the photo to your left, I can’t understand why. Seriously, this love-life problem is particularly troubling when you sincerely love someone whose parents don’t like you. What can be done about this? The first assumption we have to make is that she (your lover) is probably at an…

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Women Who Choose To Remain Single

By Dr. Jordan / July 18, 2012 /

There has always been a double standard as far as being single in middle-age goes. Men always had an easier time of it. In the old days, a single woman in middle-age was known as an ‘old maid’ or a ‘spinster.’ The idea of consciously choosing to live as a single woman was not really…

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Coping With Rejection

By Dr. Jordan / June 8, 2012 /

Rejection in any form tends to be painful. Especially when you have your heart set on something or someone. Rejection when you love someone is the most painful of all. When this happens you are faced with the task of having to grieve a loss or else turn ‘bitter.’ Bitterness is the feeling that takes…

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Are You Afraid of Love?

By Dr. Jordan / May 3, 2012 /

Are you afraid of love? Welcome to the club. I don’t think there’s a human being alive who hasn’t had the experience of fearing love. Why? What could be scary about love? Isn’t this the feeling we are all looking for? In my opinion, the problem is the vulnerability that comes with love. The only…

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