love relationships

What’s in Your Psychological Love Life?

By Dr. Jordan / September 3, 2020 /

What’s in your Psychological Love Life? Strange question or the potential answer to why your love life is not where you want it to be? Here’s the thing, your love life is not simply in your relationships with the people you love or want to love. It’s also in your expectations about love relationships. Put another way,…

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My Abandoning Parent & My Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / August 10, 2020 /

This post is the first in a series of posts that will focus on the type of unhealthy relationship experiences we can all have in life that negatively affect our love lives. The good news is that once you become aware that an experience you’ve had in your life was unhealthy and could be affecting…

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Change Your Love Life (in the time it takes to read this book!)

By Dr. Jordan / May 31, 2020 /

Why does just reading Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life have a therapeutic effect on your love life? One reason is, the major premise of this book is that a disappointed love life exists because most people don’t consciously know what they’ve learned about love relationships. If you don’t know what you’ve learned…

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I Can’t Stop Cheating

By Dr. Jordan / May 3, 2020 /

  If you’re in a love relationship and you can’t stop cheating, the first step is to consider is the idea that you have an emotional problem. Plainly stated, you have a problem with intimacy. If you can accept that, you get to go on, and with enough self-dedication change your “psychological love life.” That’s…

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New Book – Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / November 17, 2019 /

                                                                               BOOK LAUNCH!!!!! Hello, Love Life Learning Center followers….My new book – Learn to Love: Guide to Healing…

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Your Love Life & Job Performance

By Dr. Jordan / January 31, 2018 /

I’m sure you’ve heard of that old statistic that married men live longer and healthier than single men. I figure it has something to do with the fact that when you find love, worth marrying, something settles in you, therefore the phrase “settle down.” I think the same thing applies to women, and your physical…

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Professional Person’s Love Life Struggles

By Dr. Jordan / August 15, 2017 /

A “profession” is different than a job. A job is something you do. A profession is something you are. Professions take dedication and you will probably have to train and wait for it. All of this takes place during adulthood and it is common for professional development to compete with and in many cases interfere…

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Just Sex or Love Relationship?

By Dr. Jordan / April 29, 2017 /

If you’re dating, this is the very first question to answer. Unfortunately, assumptions can be made on very little information. The most common assumption derived from hope is: he or she is here for a relationship. Sorry, that might not be the case. If you are dating for sex, this article will be of little…

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My Sick Mother & My Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / October 28, 2016 /

What happens to your love life if you’re unfortunate enough to be brought up by a sick mother? If you’re not conscious of what you’ve “learned” about love relationships from her…plenty. The two most prominent effects are: 1. You’ll become a “care-giver” when you’re in a love relationship, and; 2. You’ll “keep your love partners…

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My Wife’s Narcissistic Mother

By Dr. Jordan / February 14, 2016 /

If you are considering a marriage to a woman who comes as a “package deal” with a “narcissistic mother” in tow, you need to read this post to understand what you are getting into. First let’s define what I mean by “narcissistic mother.” This is a “self-centered” parent, single or with a husband, who has…

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