Month: September 2013

He Lives With The Mother of His Children

By Dr. Jordan / September 30, 2013 /

Imagine being in love with a person who has chosen to live with the mother of his kids, only because he wants to be in his children’s lives growing up. No he doesn’t love their mother, at least not admittedly, even though she might be trying to love him. You know he loves you, however…

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Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder?

By Dr. Jordan / September 14, 2013 /

“Beauty is the in the eye of the beholder.” We’ve all heard this before, but what does it mean? It means that true beauty is subjective or in how you feel about someone or something. This of course competes with the industries that consistently try to tell us what is beautiful and what isn’t. The…

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Marriage Phobia

By Dr. Jordan / September 12, 2013 /

Some people are afraid to get married. There could be a bunch of different reasons for this particular fear. For example, let’s say you got married, maybe you did it when you were youngish. You were immature and your spouse at the time was immature, and the two of you outgrew each other pretty quickly.…

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The Disposable Marriage

By Dr. Jordan / September 6, 2013 /

Nowadays, most of us have a lot of everything. When something gets used up we throw it away. This simple act has a philosophy of life that comes with it. If something stops working, throw it away, and get another. At one time, when there was less for more people, throwing something away when it…

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Learn How To Apologize

By Dr. Jordan / September 3, 2013 /

“I’m sorry.” Do you know how difficult this little phrase can be? It is our best “measure” of how defensive or open and vulnerable someone might be at any point in time. Ordinarily, if you’ve done something “bad” and you can’t say you’re sorry chances are you’re being defensive and there will be a question…

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Educate Your Love Life!

By Dr. Jordan / September 3, 2013 /

Let me introduce you to somebody. His name is Dr. Leo Buscaglia. This guy has a very special status here at the Love Life Learning Center. Dr. Buscaglia taught at UCLA in the 1970’s. He like myself thought that people needed to think about and learn about “love” and their “love lives” like any other…

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