psychology

Your Relationship With Yourself & Your Love Life

By Dr. Jordan / August 2, 2025 /

Most people don’t consider the fact that they have a relationship with themselves. This oversight is very costly psychologically, because the relationship we have with ourselves forms the unconscious foundation of just about everything else in our psychological and interpersonal lives. To say the least, the relationship you have with yourself is well worth bringing…

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Seeking The Familiar

By Dr. Jordan / February 14, 2025 /

The familiar (root is the word family) can have a relentless grasp upon our emotional lives. Most of us don’t know this. We simply seek it throughout life unaware. Which means that we recreate it repetitively because that is what we have learned. Problem is, the familiar can be healthy and a guide to a…

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Fear of Getting Married?

By Dr. Jordan / December 30, 2020 /

Current research is reporting that more people are saying they are not interested in getting married. The research concluded that marriage is becoming less and less popular. Losing this deepest of human bonds is very troubling. Why is this happening? Is it because we are outgrowing marriage as an outdated 20th century institution? Perhaps there…

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Your Past Shouldn’t Determine Your Future

By Dr. Jordan / February 21, 2014 /

There are certain freedoms in life we have to protect or they simply slip away. The ability to actively and effectively determine our own present and future is one of them. How so? You see, your past is extremely, and I mean extremely, persuasive. We human beings like to learn things once and keep doing…

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