Month: July 2013
Are you a chronic approval seeker in your love life? If so, I recommend you read this post. Approval seeking can result in a substantial amount of love life disappointment, simply because you are asking for something no one else can give you. You are asking for something only you can give you. Think of…
Read MoreWe are in a ‘global love crisis’ because there are forces in our world, created by ourselves, that are steadily diminishing our ability to form the kind of ‘relationships’ required to nurture the love we all have inside. The experience of love is organic and emerges into our direct experience beyond our control. Love is a…
Read MoreThere are two ‘big moments’ in everybody’s love life. The moment you realize it’s time to settle down and the moment you fall in love with ‘the one.’ This post is about the former. All in all, the latter appears to get a bit more attention. I can remember ‘the moment’ I realized I was…
Read MoreLet’s face it, the job of raising a child takes a significant amount of psychological maturity. Sometimes, a bit more than what parents have attained by the time they have their children. Nothing worse than being brought up by immature parents, right? If you are born into a family with immature parents, what happens now?…
Read MoreContrary to what some people think, feelings have tons of meaning. Feelings exist for a purpose. Not just to add a little color to an otherwise routine predictable day. No way. Ultimately, feelings exist in order to tell you whether or not certain ‘needs’ you have are being met. We all have a bunch of…
Read MoreIt’s common to refer to falling in love as a ‘sickness.’ You know the craziness of falling in love. Consumed with passion, people in the throes of this love sickness are bound to do crazy stuff to possess their beloved. Sounds like a good time (or a good movie) but it’s not what I’m talking about in this article.…
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