Dr. Jordan
In the age of “fake news” and “alternative facts,” dishonesty has unfortunately become a little bit more fashionable. I say unfortunate because, the price you’ll pay is largely in your love life. Once a person gets used to the idea of using lies to deal with life’s problems, this deceptive practice can become an irresistible…
How to get out of a love relationship that has turned irreparably sour is as important as how to get into one. I must admit, this blog has been mostly focused on how to get into a love relationship and that’s OK. This post is offered in an effort to tip the balance in the…
Are you being emotionally abused in a love relationship? Read this post if you suspect you are. There are a few important things to know in order to be able to identify this type of abuse. Emotional abuse is often a bit more difficult to identify than physical abuse, the form of abuse many people…
What’s in your Psychological Love Life? Strange question or the potential answer to why your love life is not where you want it to be? Here’s the thing, your love life is not simply in your relationships with the people you love or want to love. It’s also in your expectations about love relationships. Put another way,…
The most common love life problem for single, separated, and divorced people is what I call repetitive love life disappointments. This is when a person, hopeful that she or he will find a healthy love relationship, experiences repeated disappointments one after the other. Now here’s the thing about repetitive love life disappointments that people struggling with…
In my ongoing search for websites that acknowledge and support the self-published author, one of the best is the Scott Hughes’ OnlineBookClub.org, a free site for authors and readers that has been around for about a decade with an outrageously large number of subscribers (over 1 million). What follows is a bit of information about them taken from…
This post is the first in a series of posts that will focus on the type of unhealthy relationship experiences we can all have in life that negatively affect our love lives. The good news is that once you become aware that an experience you’ve had in your life was unhealthy and could be affecting…
You marry someone and his or her mother hates you. Why? What did I do? Answer, you married my daughter or son. I didn’t know that was a crime or insult, loving your adult child. I thought you’d cherish the fact that I love her or him. You know, you should be happy to meet…
Guest Post & Book Review by Dr. Carolyn Bowen Quote of the Day: “Becoming conscious of what we’ve learned unconsciously (about love relationships) is a necessary step in getting control over our love lives.” Dr. Thomas Jordan We are beginning a new month amidst a global pandemic never experienced in our lifetimes. This deadly virus…