Dr. Jordan
If you are an adult ‘virgin’ you are either a very young adult or you are saving yourself for someone special. In either case there should be nothing to be ashamed of. I said ‘should be’ because nowadays adult virginity tends to be a ‘secret virtue’ a person would probably hide from the judgment of…
Read MoreWhat happens when you love someone but your habits of living are not compatible? How can this be so? Here are a few common examples of this problem. The incompatible habits of living tend to be in the areas of eating, sleeping, and of course, bathroom habits. Another common area of difference involves social habits.…
Read MoreI just came out of a love relationship. Sometimes I see my old lover in you. Don’t break my heart. You’re not the kind of person I usually fall in love with. I fall hard when I fall in love. Don’t break my heart. It takes me a long time to heal. Will you hurt…
Read MoreIf you’re asking this question (Am I too old to be in love?), you’re probably nervous about being able to ‘handle’ being in love at ‘your age.’ Handle of course means ‘control’ the effects of love. You probably believe that love would be overwhelming in some way. You might even believe that love is only…
Read MoreThe most difficult problem we all have with love is what to do when the love we needed growing up was not given to us for one reason or another. If you are lucky enough to heal that loss in the course of your life, you’ll be able to love and receive love more easily…
Read MoreThe love-life rule is, you have to heal your heart before you can love again. You might try to get around this. Chances are you’ll get stuck with a chronically broken heart. This is not good. It will remain as a barrier in your love-life. Why is this true? This is the way we humans are…
Read MoreHere’s the situation, you’re in a committed relationship or marriage. After a few years you start to feel dissatisfied and unhappy. You start to feel like there is ‘something missing’ in your love-life. Sex is OK, if not predictable. You still ‘love’ your partner/spouse but something’s wrong. You start to realize that you and your…
Read MoreIf you love a ‘workaholic’ you’ll need to think about a few things. An addiction to ‘work’ is like an addiction to eating or sex, we all need to have it but in the right proportions. Not enough and there is a problem. Excessive amounts and there is also a problem. Workaholics on the surface…
Read MoreLove can only thrive if there is trust. If you’ve imposed limits on what can and cannot be known about you, a love relationship will be difficult to say the least. When two people are in love they are united. If privacy is important to maintain your ‘boundaries’ as a person, love will feel like…
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