Dr. Jordan
Were you ever stood up? You know, you made a date and he or she didn’t show up? What was that about? There is a psychology behind being stood up that requires our attention. We’ll look at this phenomenon from the perspectives of the “person who stands another person up” and the “person who gets…
Read MoreOK…what type are you? Is there a marrying type? Is there a non-marrying type? Or is this a convenient way of disguising a fear of deeper love and intimacy? My gut tells me it’s the latter. There are plenty of people in the world who dread the idea of marriage. To them marriage is some…
Read MoreYou don’t have to be a “paragon” of mental health to be in love! Thank you universe! This simple fact is one of the greatest gifts to “person-kind” going. Now why? Because being “in love” is a pure and simple experience that emerges from a pure and simple place inside of all of us. We…
Read MoreOK, you’ve got a very predictable routine. You’ve got a neat little life going that you are 100% in control of. It’s very familiar to you. Not a hair out of place. Now why would anyone be interested in messing that up for love? Love is unpredictable, unusual, messy, out of control (at least at…
Read MoreReady for a controversial topic? Whether you agree or not, it’s worth thinking about. Women are changing. The old rules about how to treat a woman don’t seem to make as much sense any more. However, if women change men have to change too, right? In this post I’m going to make a few suggestions…
Read MoreTo answer this question we have to identify what you’ve learned about love growing up, and whether or not is was healthy or unhealthy. If you’re thinking: How do I know if what I learned is healthy or unhealthy? You’re right on target. I suggest you consider the following list of unhealthy love experiences as…
Read MoreFor those of you who are “stuck” in a love triangle (you, married lover and his or her spouse), I have an online course for you! It’s called “What To Do If You Are In Love With A Married Person.” You can register for it here at my website: https://lovelifelearningcenter.com/classes. This particular class was inspired by…
Read MoreHave you noticed we teach our children all kinds of things about everything except love. And if you remind me that ‘sex education’ takes places a lot these days, I’ll make a face at you. Love is not covered by sex education, enough said. We could sit around all day trying to figure out why…
Read MoreThe quickest and most effective way to “work on your love life” is to make a positive change in the following two areas: 1. How you feel about yourself. 2. How close you can let yourself be to somebody you love or care about. Let me explain. How you feel about yourself is the “foundation”…
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