Dr. Jordan
Some people are afraid to get married. There could be a bunch of different reasons for this particular fear. For example, let’s say you got married, maybe you did it when you were youngish. You were immature and your spouse at the time was immature, and the two of you outgrew each other pretty quickly.…
Nowadays, most of us have a lot of everything. When something gets used up we throw it away. This simple act has a philosophy of life that comes with it. If something stops working, throw it away, and get another. At one time, when there was less for more people, throwing something away when it…
Let me introduce you to somebody. His name is Dr. Leo Buscaglia. This guy has a very special status here at the Love Life Learning Center. Dr. Buscaglia taught at UCLA in the 1970’s. He like myself thought that people needed to think about and learn about “love” and their “love lives” like any other…
It is very important to be able to tell whether or not your love relationship is healthy. Just like anything else in life, right? If your body is unhealthy in some way, you’d want to know how and why as soon as possible. The same goes for your mind, at least for most people. But…
The problem with losing weight for a lover is, you might not be losing weight for yourself. Let’s say there are two categories we need to talk about: losing weight for somebody else and losing weight for you. In this post I am most assuredly going to elevator you, yourself, into a status that is…
Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against mother-in-laws as a natural and inevitable byproduct of getting married. In fact, if you get married and don’t expect to have a mother-in-law, barring unusual circumstances, you’re in trouble. No, this post is about what happens when you get married and your mother-in-law rejects the fact that…
Let’s face it, if you expect a love relationship without conflict, think again. Two people means two different perspectives whether or not those perspectives are expressed and acknowledged. Keeping your true feelings and thoughts to yourself is worse for your relationship, but that’s for another post. If you aren’t afraid of a little conflict in…
Are you a chronic approval seeker in your love life? If so, I recommend you read this post. Approval seeking can result in a substantial amount of love life disappointment, simply because you are asking for something no one else can give you. You are asking for something only you can give you. Think of…
We are in a ‘global love crisis’ because there are forces in our world, created by ourselves, that are steadily diminishing our ability to form the kind of ‘relationships’ required to nurture the love we all have inside. The experience of love is organic and emerges into our direct experience beyond our control. Love is a…