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Are You Experiencing Repetitive Love Life Disappointments?

By Dr. Jordan / August 24, 2020 /

The most common love life problem for single, separated, and divorced people is what I call repetitive love life disappointments. This is when a person, hopeful that she or he will find a healthy love relationship, experiences repeated disappointments one after the other. Now here’s the thing about repetitive love life disappointments that people struggling with…

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Love After The Pandemic

By Dr. Jordan / April 18, 2020 /

  Remember the phrase, “we are at our best when we are at our worst.” I believe our best is the love that is possible between people. Our worst is the sickness, death, and grief that occurs when we are living through a global pandemic. So what does this really mean? Why aren’t we at our…

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How Do I Forgive Someone for Cheating?

By Dr. Jordan / April 15, 2018 /

Not easily. The first thing a “victim” of this behavior needs to consider is whether or not the cheating is a “pattern.” Pattern meaning, something that has reoccurred over and over again in the relationship or whether cheating has occurred in previous relationships of the cheater. If there is a pattern, the cheater’s behavior will be…

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How Long Do I Wait For A Proposal?

By Dr. Jordan / December 17, 2015 /

You meet someone, fall in love, date, move in, (maybe even have a kid or two – optional), OK so when are you supposed to receive a proposal of marriage? More than a few women have showed up in my office depressed and angry about being in a love relationship with a man who keeps…

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Take Care Of You, Take Care Of Relationship

By Dr. Jordan / April 2, 2013 /

By Susan Greene MA, MFTI Guest writer for the Love-Life Learning Center When it comes to the quality of relationships you have with someone you are in love with, the quality of the relationship you have with yourself cannot be ignored. Betrayals Addictions Emotional, Verbal, Physical, or Financial Abuse These issues are common to couples…

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Dating Rule: No Sex For 90 Days?

By Dr. Jordan / July 21, 2012 /

Pardon the photo, but I had to find something that made the point of this post. And don’t get carried away by the gender implication, the ideas apply to both genders. Someone told me that a contemporary dating rule out there in the single world reads ‘no sex for 90 days’ when you start dating…

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Will a Baby Fix My Love-Life?

By Dr. Jordan / April 24, 2012 /

My original thought was to say the word “no” as an answer to the question in the title of this post in as many languages as I could think of to make the point. But for brevity sake I decided against that. You can’t fix your love-life by having a baby, no exceptions. Here’s why.…

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