Check out my new ebook! HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONSHIP: LEARN HOW ISBN# 9781629211244     (This ebook is available at Amazon and in the Apple iBookstore and at Barnes & Noble). 

You’ll enjoy this book. I wrote it from my heart and my head. I included everything I ever learned about love from my love life, from observations of other people’s love lives as their doctor, from books I’ve read, and from people like mentors, analysts, therapists, and others I believe really understood the HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONSHIP.

This book reads like a conversation between myself and someone who is curious about what constitutes a HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONSHIP. The emphasis is on the importance of what you’ve learned about love and whether or not it is healthy, and what you can do about it if what you’ve learned is not healthy.

I talk about all the important “ingredients” of a healthy love relationship. In fact, each ingredient gets a chapter. I also talk about how what you’ve learned about love can be “unlearned” if unhealthy and something new or better learned or re-learned. Very practical stuff.

My objective in writing this book is to help curious readers work on themselves and their love relationships, both areas are important when seeking to have a HEALTHY LOVE RELATIONSHIP. Remember the relationship you have with yourself, in addition to the kind of relationship you tend to set up when you fall in love, both will determine the “health” (or lack there of) of your love life.

Our love lives are often influenced by unhealthy relationship experiences we had early in life that negatively affect the kind of relationship we form when in love. If you become aware of this kind of thing you can begin to do something about it. If not, it can control your love life creating unhappiness and repetitive disappointments.

Check it out. Think of it as a continuing adult ‘love life’ education course.

Dr. Tom Jordan



Dr. Jordan

Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist, certified interpersonal psychoanalyst, author, professor, and love life researcher.


  1. Sue on February 9, 2014 at 11:15 am

    How do I purchase the book?

    • Dr. Jordan on February 10, 2014 at 1:31 pm

      The Healthy Love Relationship: Learn How is currently on Amazon and in the Apple iBookstore. The e-book will be in Barnes & Noble’s listing in a week or so. Thanks, Dr. J.

  2. Williamdiog on May 6, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    I truly appreciate this article.Much thanks again. Will read on…

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