How To Emotionally Prepare For A Future Love Relationship

If you feel emotionally unprepared for a love relationship in your life, this audio download series will provide you with some practical ideas on how to get yourself psychologically ready for your next love relationship. When love arrives you’ll be better prepared to receive it and take proper care of it. You can prepare for love by knowing and practicing the most receptive state of mind, and by learning how to create the type of relationship that can best contain and grow love when it arrives. This audio download starts with a discussion of the emotional experience of living without a lover. From there I focus on the things you can do to psychologically prepare yourself for the next experience of love. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 2 hours, 3 minutes, 37 seconds.

Need To Leave Your Love Relationship?

How to Understand and Cope with the Emotional Issues Involved

If you need to leave your love relationship and you’re struggling with the emotions involved, this audio download series will provide you with the information you’ll need to leave in the healthiest way possible. This audio starts with a discussion of the different feelings that occur when leaving a love relationship. I discuss the experience of constructively ending a relationship, how you can tell if your love relationship is over, and the various ways you might convince yourself to stay in the relationship even when you know deep down inside it’s time to go. I’ll also discuss ways to leave your  relationship and what you can do if you don’t feel emotionally ready to leave. This love-life audio series ends with a discussion of a few false beliefs that support and promote unhealthy ways of leaving when a relationship is over. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 43 minutes, 5 seconds.

Going Through A Divorce?

What You Need To Know To Emotionally Survive This Love-Life Crisis

If you’re going through a divorce and need to better understand the emotional issues involved, this audio download series contains the information you’ll need to successfully get yourself through this emotional crisis in your love-life. I start with a discussion of the various emotional experiences you’ll have and can expect to have as you go through the divorce process. I’ll focus on the emotional ‘stages’ of a divorce and a few false beliefs about marriage and divorce that can make the experience of divorce more difficult. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan; Total Time: 1 hour, 58 minutes, 36 seconds.

Family of Origin Interfering with Your Love-Life?

What You Need To Know To Own Your Own Love-Life

If your family of origin is interfering with your love-life choices, this audio download series will provide you with the information you’ll need to develop your own personal strategy to take back your love-life. I’ll discuss how you’ve been sacrificing your love-life. I’ll also talk about a healthy family’s psychological objective of helping grown children create positive self-esteem, an ability to be in love, and a love-life beyond the family of origin. You’ll understand the various ways your family can interfere with your developing ability to love a stranger beyond your family and what to do about it. This audio download ends with a challenging discussion of the false beliefs you might have that support an underdeveloped love-life. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 42 minutes, 12 seconds.

Your Lover Cheated On You?

What You Need To Know To Solve This Love-Life Problem

If your lover has cheated on you, or you suspect your lover will cheat on you, and you’re not sure what to do about it, this audio download series will give you the information you’ll need to make the right decisions for yourself. I’ll start with a discussion of what you’re going through having to deal with this critical love-life problem. I describe the decisions you’ll need to make to figure out whether or not you’ll be able to fix this problem in your love relationship. I’ll review the various things you’ll need to consider if you want to recommit to your relationship or choose to leave the relationship. I close with a discussion of some of the false beliefs you might have that interfere with solving the problem of cheating or infidelity. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 28 minutes, 54 seconds

Is Your Lover Abusive?

What You Need To Know To Make the Right Changes in Your Love-Life

If you’re in an abusive love relationship and you’re not sure what to do about it, this audio download series will provide you with the information you’ll need to begin changing your love-life. This audio begins with a discussion of the types of abuse that can occur in a love relationship. I will talk about the feelings you’re struggling with, and help you understand the limited beliefs you may have about yourself, your lover, and your relationship that support and promote abuse. I’ll offer you alternative ideas and an understanding that will help you make improvements in your love-life. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 51 minutes, 41 seconds.

How to Save Your Love Relationship

If you’re in trouble with your lover and you need to know how to ‘work’ on your love relationship, this audio download series will discuss the various ways you can begin improving your relationship. I’ll discuss the psychological issues involved in promoting and sustaining a healthy love relationship. I’ll present practical ideas you can immediately use to develop your relationship. Topics like the importance of communication in sustaining a relationship, and managing the influence of your families of origin. I’ll also discuss the issue of emotional independence, and letting go of earlier love-life disappointments that may be negatively affecting your love relationship. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 19 minutes, 15 seconds.

Hooked on Pornography?

What You Need to Know to Understand and Reduce Your Addiction

If you think you’re addicted to pornography, this audio series will provide you with the information you’ll need to better understand your addiction and reduce your dependence. In this audio download series, I’m going to invite you to think about pornography in new and different ways. Join me in an open minded understanding of what pornography really is. I’ll offer you the psychological information that will empower you to understand pornography, why it’s so addictive, and how to loosen the hold it has on your sex life. The more you understand about pornography and it effects on you, the better able you’ll be to take the practical steps needed to control its influence and get help if you can’t. A word of caution, this audio series contains some explicit sexual language used for the purpose of illustration. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 32 minutes, 31 seconds.

Avoiding a Love Commitment?

How to Overcome this Obstacle in Your Love-Life

If you’re having a difficult time making a love commitment either for the first time or as a recurrent pattern in your love-life, this audio download series will give you the information you’ll need to take the risk. I’ll discuss what a love commitment involves, and the freedom that occurs when you fall in love, commit to that love, and decide to stop searching for love. I’ll talk about the various ways you might be avoiding a commitment and discuss a few beliefs and psychological defenses you might have that support an avoidance of commitment. This audio concludes with a practical discussion of the various things you can do to make a commitment easier to risk. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 26 minutes, 13 seconds.

Trying to Cope with Loneliness?

How to Understand and Work with this Love-Life Problem

If you are experiencing loneliness and would like to deepen your understanding of this problem and explore solutions, this audio download series will provide you with the information you’ll need to get started. I begin this audio series with a discussion of what loneliness is. I talk about the different types of loneliness, and describe the primary causes of loneliness, namely, trouble connecting to someone and trouble being by your self. I then challenge a few ways of thinking that can promote loneliness in your life and present the various tasks involved in a psychological solution to loneliness. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 47 minutes, 16 seconds.

Safe Internet Dating: How to Spot Bad Dates Online

If you’re a single man or woman thinking about using internet dating sites to meet eligible people for dating, or you’ve used dating sites before without success, or you’ve had bad experiences online, this audio download series can help you understand the psychological issues involved in meeting people online. I’ll talk about ‘meeting of the minds’ online, versus the ‘meeting of the bodies’ in traditional dating, and the problem with identifying who you’re talking to online. I talk about ‘misrepresentation’ and how you can beat it with questions, your natural sensitivity to deception, and the constructive use of time. I conclude with my effective model of internet dating and challenge a few false ideas about internet dating that can interfere with your goal to meet and date eligible people online. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 1 hour, 49 minutes, 31 seconds.

How to Choose a Good Husband or Wife

What You Need to Know to Make the Best Choice Possible

If you’re thinking about getting married but aren’t sure how to pick a good husband or wife, this audio download series was created to provide you with the psychological information you’ll need to use when choosing a spouse. I talk about what can interfere with choosing the best marital partner, and describe the kind of relationship you can form with the right lover that will grow your love and make it last over time. I’ll discuss the various issues involved in figuring out your lover’s readiness for marriage by clarifying the kinds of things you’d want and not want in your marital relationship. I’ll conclude with a discussion of the three most important questions you should ask yourself if you’re contemplating marriage and challenge a list of common ideas about marriage that could interfere with making the right choice. Author: Dr. Thomas Jordan. Total Time: 2 hours, 5 minutes, 25 seconds.